My Most Beloved Hero

I’ve never been one for hero worship.  I never really had the time.  There are people who worship movie stars, sports figures, politicians, or even priests.  I don’t understand the cult of personality that permeates our society like a virus.  That doesn’t mean I don’t have a hero.  It’s just that mine is closer to home.  As it happens, tomorrow is her 50th birthday.

I’m sure many of you will think that I’m just sucking up because you know…we live together.  But even if we didn’t that wouldn’t change the fact that she’s still my hero, and one of the most driven and compassionate people I know.  To add to that she is a mother of three, grandmother of five, and still found time to become an accomplished attorney.  When she sets her mind to something there’s very little that will stand in her way.  I know…I have the bruises to prove it. 

It’s not just the professional and family accomplishments that make me a fan.  Six years ago my wife was twice her weight.  She’s going to kill me for showing you this picture, but I don’t care.  While she understands her accomplishment she still doesn’t comprehend the importance it has for others.  After a lifetime of poor diet and little exercise, she decided to change all that and become healthy.  So without surgery, and without drugs, she changed her lifestyle.  As you can see the results are dramatic.

 
 
If that wasn’t enough, last year she decided she wanted to run a marathon.  I told her it was a great idea and I would do it with her.  Now just so you know, if your wife decides to run a marathon it might sound like a great idea to run it with her.  It’s not.  If you want to be involved just offer to carry the water…in a car…and wait for her at each of the stops.  Believe me…you’ll thank me later.
 
Anyway, in a fit of insanity after running her first marathon she decided that the best thing to do would be to run FOUR MORE BEFORE SHE TURNED 50!  Because what sounds better than the torture of running “A” marathon?  Running 5.  Keep in mind that this is a woman who couldn’t run a mile six years earlier, and hadn’t run more than 3 miles before she decided to train for her first marathon.   So after completing her first one in March, she completed her fifth in December.  That means in less than nine months she ran five marathons before she turned fifty.  I don’t care how good of shape you’re in.  That’s hard.  Having a baby might be more pain, but no matter how bad the labor is it doesn’t last the full nine months, and you get more than a medal when it’s over.
 

Still, she set the goal, and met it.  How many people can say that?  To add to all this, a little over three years ago she uprooted her life and career as a successful attorney in Nevada to move to Colorado and start over.  Now less than three years later she’s gone from being the Junior attorney to Managing, turning what was once a dysfunctional law firm into a well-oiled machine.  With all the training and working you would think she would want to take a rest.  Nope.

This next year she wants to qualify for the Boston Marathon.  I’m sure she will.  She has an hour to take off her time, which sounds crazy until you understand that in five months she took an hour off her original marathon time.  With all the training and dedication I know she’ll succeed. 

Still, what I admire most is her dedication to her family.  She loves her children and adores her grandchildren.  The first thing you understand when you become the husband of someone who already has a family is that you are not the first in line.  I’m good with that.  It’s the way it’s supposed to be.  I just hope her kids understand the love and admiration she has for them is equal to that I have for her.

Kim and I have been married for three years, and we’re still going strong.  She is the best partner I could have ever hoped for, and one I plan to keep for the rest of my life.  Which could quite possibly be a pretty easy declaration once she sees that picture.  Either way I’m glad I did it.  I want everyone to see who I married, and why.  Because I love my wife not only for what she has accomplished, but for who she is:  A loving, driven, compassionate woman. 

And she is by far my greatest, and most beloved hero.

I love you, baby!

Rex

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas everyone!  Look…I said it an no one died.

 I hope everyone is having a happy holiday season this year.  This has been a great time for me and mine.  The holidays can always be a challenge, but if you can keep a sense of humor you can usually take just about anything.  How else do you expect to deal with a roomful of relatives you take every opportunity to avoid the other 364 days of the year?

Last year  I started working for an organization that has some great people.  And I’m not just saying that because my boss reads my blog.  They really are great people.  There are times when I think everyone is paddling the ship of business in a different direction, but that doesn’t mean they’re not trying!  However we are making great strides in getting all the oars in the water.

 This was the third year my wife and I have been together, and the second of our marriage.  I love her dearly.  She’s my best friend.  That’s not to say times aren’t occasionally challenging.  Still…she’s slowly realizing that I’m usually right so things are getting smoother.  OK…maybe I’m not always right.  Occasionally right.  Fine…rarely right.  In truth I just follow her lead and life is pretty good!  I lived alone for most of my adult life, so finally being able to share it with someone has been one of the greatest gifts I have ever received.  I love you honey!

The year’s not over yet, but so far I made it through without breaking any bones.  That’s always a challenge.  However, I did run 4 marathons, which is one less than my wife who is, quite frankly, lovely, as I said before, but a little crazy.  My joints and muscles hurt for so long that I thought age was finally catching up to me.  Then I stopped running for a couple of weeks this month and realized it was just the ridiculous training schedule.  Trying to keep up with my wife will either kill you, or make you stronger.  Actually I’m not sure breaking a leg wouldn’t have been easier.  At least it would have provided an excuse to sit still.

Next year is looking up as well.  They’ve announced layoffs at work, but that’s normal for my career.  I just keep in mind that I was looking for a job when I got this one.  Still…I’m hopeful that all will work out in the end.  I’ve landed on my feet thus far.  I have no reason to think that trend will not continue.  Also, having another  year in Colorado just means another year of fun in the trees.  I have plans to focus my time on seeing if I can survive a 100 mile mountain bike race.  It’s got to be easier than running a marathon.  At least I will be sitting down.

 Well, I better sign off now.  I have to go shop for stocking stuffers!  I love the holidays!

 Rex

ISIS is no Adolf Hitler

There is no doubt that ISIS, and groups like them, need to be stopped.  They are murderess thugs bent on the annihilation of civilization.  They have no desire for an Islamic State.  They thrive on chaos.  Their political and somewhat public support is almost non-existent however they do receive funding from various private sources.  This is why, when I hear arguments that we need to go to war with them because if we don’t it will be just like Nazi Germany I smirk.  While they may be as ruthless, and as blood thirsty, ISIS is no Adolf Hitler.

First, let’s put things into perspective.  Germany was devastated economically after WWI.  France and Great Britain put a huge economic burden on the country by demanding war reparations.  The recovery from the political, social and economic depression in the country was slow, if not nonexistent.  This set into motion the events that brought the little painter with the funny mustache to power in 1933.  While his rise was definitely underscored by acts of violence on his opponents, he used the political system to gain the influence he needed to set into motion the atrocities which started five years later.

By the 1936 Olympics in Berlin Hitler had secured his role as a world leader.  Much of the world thought he was the second coming, including Great Britain who appeased him early on.  For those not paying attention, he was seen as a great man who was leading his people out from economic oblivion into an economic power greater than the world had ever seen.  It wasn’t until he started to annex neighboring countries that the rest of the world started to take notice of his true goals.  Which is interesting since he actually published them.

Now, let’s look at ISIS.  They and similar groups have done little, or nothing, to garner political influence on the world stage.  They have shown themselves to be nothing but thugs.  They will never influence anyone to their cause other than a small set of twisted individuals.  They are just criminals.  So the question we should be asking is how are these organizations able to survive without widespread political support?  That’s easy…don’t think Hitler.  Think Capone.

These groups are dependent on criminal activity and the support of larger business, political and criminal enterprises to stay afloat.  Religious fervor is not what keeps this going.  Also, just like Capone, these groups will one day turn on their benefactors and become more trouble than they are worth.  That just hasn’t happened yet.  However, even Capone knew he needed local support to keep his enterprises running.  These fools aren’t even that smart. 

These terrorists are not politically connected.  Tragically however the people funding them are.  The companies and multinationals that supply the arms to defeat these criminals are even more dependent upon their continuation, than the people who supply the funding.  If we could cut off funding for these groups, they wouldn’t be able to buy arms, terrorize populations, or have the wherewithal to spook a groundhog.  That means that all the financial organizations, and businesses that supply arms, technology, fuel, food, cash and manpower used to defeat these cockroaches won’t enjoy the financial windfall they are right now.  They also won’t be able to fund the political campaigns of politicians around the globe who depend on their money to get elected.  There is much more going on here than what can be seen on the surface.  See…Capone.

The United States, Europe, China and Russia have enormous influence on world cash flow.  Nothing moves without their approval…nothing.  If they truly wanted to stop funding to these organizations, they would.  However…they won’t.  As long as there is profit, business leaders will block any movement toward intervention.  They convince themselves that “Hey, I don’t kill the people.  I only sell them ways to defend themselves.”  This, my friends, is how billionaires sleep at night…on their yachts.  What are a few dead babies and beheaded reporters to the larger financial picture?

Einstein said that doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity.  By rattling the war sabers we’re doing the same thing we have always done, and expecting something different.  Committing U.S. or any troops to a war that will end in the deaths of hundreds of thousands, or millions of lives is insanity.  It’s time for a new tactic.  So I propose this:

If we find that any citizen of any country is financially funding, selling, supplying, or in any way knowingly supporting rather directly or indirectly, these terrorists, then it is the obligation of that country to apprehend said individual and present them to an international court to stand trial.  Their finances will be immediately frozen, and they will no longer have the means to provide support for these groups.  If said country fails to apprehend said individual, then that country’s finances are frozen, and they risk military intervention from the world.

Now let me tell you why this won’t work.  I know what you’re thinking.  Rex, you’re a cynic.  Yes I am.  Most realists are.  So the reality is that as soon as someone presents the idea of a roadblock to the economic elite, the power brokers in all countries will spoil that idea like maggots on meat.  Want to know why?  Because they need the social, economic, and political crises for their own financial gain. 

This is why I say, and will always say, follow the money.  If we don’t then we will always end up in the same insanity over, and over, and over, again.  Religious wars have been going on for thousands of years.  They have also been funded by very wealthy and influential people that have stood to benefit from their creation.  The terrorists are not the major threat to civilization.  It’s the backroom wheelers and dealers who pull their strings that are the true societal threat.

So stop listening to politicians who say that ISIS is the next Fuhrer.  They’re not even close.  They are however, a means by which the true demons influence public debate for their own means.  True threats are never in the open.  They fester under the skin like an infection waiting to devour a body.  These fools are out in the open showing us their true colors.  When the next Hitler arrives, we won’t see him coming until it’s too late.  Unfortunately, only then, will the financial world know it made a mistake.

Voting Control




A childhood friend of mine posted the above picture on Facebook yesterday, and while I flippantly replied to it, I felt that my responses needed further explanation.  I am of two minds on the subject.  While I do agree with the sentiment that government cannot be trusted, I do not agree that guns are the way to keep government honest.  The United States Government has no fear of people owning thousands of guns.  A person can only shoot two at a time anyway, and quite frankly,  if you do attempt a government coup, a laser guided bomb will render your  invasion immediately inert.  In short, guns are not a threat to the U.S. Government, only its citizenry. 

Now…before the gun lobby gets its hackles up, this article is not about gun control.  It’s about personal responsibility.  With that said, own a gun if you want one.  Just learn to use it responsibly. 

OK…the real reason I’m writing this article…

The problem with most of us is that we think that government is the problem.  We are at odds with a political process we find confusing and cumbersome.  We listen to the talking heads on TV that have little or no knowledge of the issues on which they speak, and we are constantly bombarded with misinformation on any number of subjects from idiots to industry.  We are led into thinking that those who don’t agree with us are a threat that must be eliminated, and that politicians should be the first to go.  The thing is that the politicians are not the problem.  WE are the problem.  Politicians are only the result of that problem.

We, as citizens, vote any number of crazy people into office.  That’s because a great majority of us don’t spend any time actually educating ourselves on what’s happening in the world.  Politicians know this.  They prey on this fact.  If they can give you a three word phrase to make you afraid, then they have done enough to get themselves elected.  Is that their fault?  Yes.  However, we are equally culpable.  If you give a thief your wallet, don’t be shocked when they rip you off.  The same goes with your vote.

You do have the option to buy an arsenal and start your militia.  In fact that’s a right protected by the Constitution.  The problem is that this will really get you nowhere except dead.  Not only that in my experience the organizations that do that are not doing it to exercise their rights.  They’re doing it to cover up their wrongs.  I will give you an example:

Separatists like to use the FBI invasion of David Koresh and the Branch Davidians as an example of un-checked government power.  And while the FBI may not have handled it well, the crimes going on inside the compound were unforgivable.  Koresh used the Bible, and his twisted power to prey on children.  Don’t believe me?  Watch the hearings on CNBC where pre-pubescent children testified how they were given to him for sexual sacrifice.  One poor 12 year old girl testified before Congress on how Koresh would masturbate over her.  It was obvious she didn’t understand what he was doing, but she described it in great detail.  Burning them all alive was too good for them if you ask me.

However let’s get back to the issue at hand.  Many people walk around afraid the government is going to go rouge.  This picture shows evidence of that.  Let’s face it, if you think what happened to the Japanese in the above picture can’t happen today, you’re wrong.  In fact as I mentioned to my friend it is right now.  We have people who are in prison for no other reason than they are addicts.  In my opinion, that’s crazy.  Why does this happen?  Because we voted for politicians whose campaigns are funded by corporations that run privately managed prisons.  Since those funds paid for advertising that made us afraid, we wanted those politicians to make us unafraid.  We didn’t take the time to see who was going to profit if we took ill people and made them criminals.

In fact just like Germany we have our own ghettos where we corral the poor and infirm and then blame them for being in ghettos.  The rich and powerful systematically remove any means of getting out of these places, only to tell us these people are trying to steal our wealth.  We should be afraid of the poor and the weak?  What power have they?  Now compare that to the power of the rich and influential.  In other words, who’s paying for the message?

Even today politicians are coming out of the woodwork like cockroaches to get us wound up for another war.  Why?  Because two people were brutally murdered by some thugs half way around the world.  Who’s paying for them to talk to us as if we’re on the verge of being invaded?  This is what needs to be researched.  I would hazard a guess that the money is coming from people like Boeing, Honeywell, and Halliburton.  Why do you think Dick “Darth Vader” Cheney is out of his box promoting invasion?  As a former CEO of Halliburton he’s got a lot of money riding on it.   

So with all my ranting it really comes down to one thing:  If you want to control government then educate yourself and vote.  That’s how you control politicians.  If more people got involved in government, then the money spent by industry to control government would become virtually useless.  Think about it.  GE, Koch, Microsoft, Google, BP, Gulf, and the like spend billions of dollars to sway elections.  If we were all paying attention and voting in our best interest then money would have no power at all.  Their money would have no meaning in the political process.

It’s very easy to do nothing to participate in the process and then criticize it when it fails you.  People will stand and throw rocks at the machine, destroying it, only to say “See…it doesn’t work.”  It’s very annoying.  In reality if we put forth any effort for support we would see that our labors would be eased.  Participation is the key.       

Now, do I think my friend has any intention of starting his own militia and taking over the country?  No.  I do however believe that he is so frustrated with what he sees as a failed process that he thinks major changes need made.  So what I say to you, and to him is this.  The process is not a failure.  However, the only way to make it work is to participate.  Get involved.  Learn everything you can on how the system works.  Shout from the highest mountains that you want things to change. 

We don’t need gun control.  We need voting control.

Rex 

Just Say No!

In the last few months bombings have escalated between Israel and Hamas.  U.S. Warplanes have been ordered back to Afghanistan.  Troops have been ordered back to Iraq, and two Americans have been beheaded in Syria.  This all begs the question:  Why are we wasting our time with these people?

For those of you who think we go there for Oil, here are some fun facts for you.  Forty percent of our oil comes from Texas, Alaska, and California.  Some of this oil we sell to other countries.  In other words…it doesn’t stay here.  The next largest amount we get is 20%  and comes from Latin America and after that Canada gives us 15%.  Africa provides a little over 10% and the Saudi’s (our Allies…no wars) provide 8%. There are a few other sources but the amounts are around 2% and so small they aren’t worth listing.   Now that means that only 5% of oil comes from middle-eastern countries.  If we stop exporting our oil we can make that up.  So if that’s the case why are we there?

I realize that there may be other global considerations with these conflicts.  For example, Iran may be able to make a nuclear bomb.  Yea, we don’t want that.  After all, a world power bent on our nuclear annihilation is Russia’s job. They’ve been failing miserably at it in recent decades, but with what’s going on in the Ukraine I think they’re making a comeback! 

These are not civilized nations of people.  If they want to kill each other, shouldn’t we let them?  If the majority of people in these nations thought that what was happening  was wrong wouldn’t you think there would be an outcry from them?  I mean the civilized nations seem to be whining, but I don’t hear a lot of them whining.  They seem to think this is business as usual.  Let’s face it, if this happened in the U.S. it would be very short lived.  Police and military support or not, it would be pretty short lived. 

It’s never a good idea to jump in the middle of a cat fight.  It’s always best to wait until their done killing themselves.  So why are we sacrificing our money, resources, and the blood of our young people for regions that have been fighting for so long it predates written history?  They have been killing each other for thousands, if not millions, of years, and they will continue to kill each other for thousands more.  It’s all they know.  It’s all they will ever know.  It is not now, nor will it ever be our place to change these attitudes.  They have to do it themselves.  Let’s let them.  
  
If violent groups in third world countries are a cancer then I think it’s too late to cure it.  This patient is brain-dead.   Let’s pull the plug.  We should pull our money, pull our resources, and pull our troops.  It’s time to let this patient die.  All we should do is make sure the infection doesn’t spread.

I’m not suggesting we become an isolationist country.  I’m suggesting we not be the Tim Taylor country.  Every time we try to fix something it ends up causing more problems than it solves.  We’re like the neighbor who comes over to fix a leak, and by the end of the day you’re calling 8 contractors in addition to the plumber to fix the mess they created.  We need to stop…it’s a mental condition.  Remember what Einstein said:  The definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result.  I think it’s time for some therapy.

Just Say No!